We often talk of destiny, yet all of us have the right to choose as we wish among many things. It is exciting to think that destiny exists and in sense in does. Yet, how can we explain the randomness of life? Is this randomness part of destiny also? We may choose unwisely, and if so we must live with the consequences. We may try to blame others, but most of the time, it is solely on us for it is us that made the choice. But even then, it is not necessarily the consequences that define us, but how we handle and overcome the consequences. Instead of letting someone or something get the best of us, we should try to give them or that our best. There are many enemies that we may have and most of them are created by ourselves. Often, we truly are our own worst enemy. We make rash decisions letting emotion get the better of reason. We cut off our nose to spite our face as the old saying goes. We have rollercoaster minds that go up and down, high and low, and around in circles. It is always best to consider all the options before deciding on what road to take and that road shall lead us to our destiny.