It is true that we probably regret those things that we didn’t act upon. We look back and are troubled by the lost opportunities; the things that slipped away because for some reason, we didn’t act when we had the chance; didn’t make the effort; or were afraid of failure…It is also true that some of the best things we ever did were things that we never actually did. Things that passed by and tempted us; that tried to lure us into jumping into that pool that we may have regretted getting into and may have struggled to get out of. We may have even drowned. Sometimes it is best that we didn’t act on our intentions; that we never sent those letters that we were so determined to write but were merely left on the desk or in a dusty drawer, or like forgotten shopping lists, were simply mislaid.