Someone once said that the days of their life pass happily with them wherever their ship sails. You have to be with your ship as much as you can. You can easily get sidetracked when you are on land. You can lose focus, lose direction. So shove off as much as you can and sail the open water. There aren’t any painted lines or guardrails to hem you in. You’ve got to do what you have got to do without anyone trying to tell you what to do and how to do it and when to do it. Find your destination and just set sail or let the destination find you.