It has been said that the pessimist complains about the wind and curses it; the optimist expects it to change, and the realist adjusts the sails to the prevailing breeze. Adapt. Take what you have and do what you can with it. If you can’t make port today, then make it tomorrow. No use making yourself look like a fool or acting like one because you didn’t get what you wanted this minute. The sea teaches us patience, and it like life is so much larger than we are. Who we are to complain?