No man's land is land that is not occupied presently or, more specifically, land that is under dispute between countries or areas that will not occupy it because of fear or uncertainty, or for tactical or strategical considerations. It strikes me that many of us live in a no man’s land from time to time. We live our life but it really isn’t our life, or the one we would choose to live if given the choice. It is fear and uncertainty that can keep us from doing what we really want to do. There comes a time when we have to go ‘over the top’ if we want to advance, or remain in our trenches dug in.