We have our ways. Others have their ways. We should accept the ways of others whenever we can but it is important to respect our ways first. This means we should not be quick to compromise to please others and follow the party line. It is vital that we seek our own path and not give in to pressure to ‘conform’ to the ways of others. Others may look at us as being askew but this should not matter to us. Our way is the way of the Dao and we must always strive to walk its path.